There are many reasons why this happens, the first of which is supply and demand. Now if a bunch of people are all on an island, your perception of attractiveness is going to be based on who is available. But when you move into places like the U.S. where many different people are in a small area, this all changes.
Asian women are simply expanding their views, and instead of only dating Asian men, they are dating many different types of men. So it’s only natural for it to look as if they don’t spend much time dating Asian men.
Now when you think of the fact that many countries of the world are still dominated by men, is it any wonder why women would prefer men who grow up believing that men and women are equals? If a woman is attractive, and knows how to treat a man, she will likely have many options.
So anyone, male or female would start to weed out the less impressive or favorable options. This means the bar will be continually be raised.
Another important issue that explains this phenomenon is racism. Yes, many will claim they are not racist, but most people have some set of assumptions we have on people. Sure, we know everyone is an individual, but these assumptions serve as a starting point.
The assumptions surrounding Asian men is that they view women more as property, have a too small penis, and generally have a more soft small body (as opposed to large and masculine).
Now when many cultures move to a new country they like to pass down their beliefs to their children. So, while not all Asian men have the beliefs that women are there to serve men, some do. Remember, stereotypes come from somewhere! The small penis remark is a funny one as women look for every possible cue to indicate the size of a man’s package.
Men don’t exactly put it on display the same way women have their cleavage in plain sight. The view that Asian men generally have a softer feminine body type, isn’t completely true, and isn’t completely false either. Asian men are generally considered to have smaller and often more soft and sometimes feminine features.
No, I’m not saying they look like women, well, not where it counts. But, things like broad shoulders, strong hands, and a masculine face are all things women look for.
So, with this in mind, black men tend to be considered exotic to many Asian women. Asian women, appear as an ideal to most men. Asian women are often small, with a very modern feminine look. Today the idea of a beautiful feminine woman is small with an hour glass figure.
And no this isn’t just hearsay. Research has been done that shows no matter what men want in a woman, the curves that are part of the hour glass shape is very desirable. Women on the other hand look for men who have traits that dictate power, and the ability to take care of her and her offspring.
We’ve all seen how one of the quickest things women put on their list is height!
So, as an Asian man, all is not lost. You’re doing yourself a disservice if you’re trying to look and appear as others do. Women will naturally become attracted to you when you give off an aura of power, confidence, and intelligence. So mold yourself into the vision of the man who forges his own destiny, and makes himself into what he wants.
Now of course there are certain things that make a man appear more masculine.
But if you take care of your health and appearance, and have a confidence about you, one deep look into her eyes will simply melt her!