Got A Crush?

It’s not only men who have problems with the approach, if you are a woman, you likely know just how intimidating it can be to go up to a man you are attracted to. One large reason for this feeling of fear is simply because traditionally, men have always been the ones to pursue. It may feel awkward for you to take on the role of the pursuer and will sometimes wonder what he’ll think of this. There are some men who are not exactly turned on by overly confident woman and would rather not... more

1. You feel like you’re losing your sense of “self” If you aren’t doing the things you’re interested in, not seeing your friends, trying to make yourself over for him, it’s time to end it! Either he wanted to date you for who you are or he didn’t. It’s never worth losing your identity to another person. 2. You’re fighting all the time A relationship isn’t worth hanging onto if there’s constant conflict. Your relationships should... more

n every relationship there are signs that the partnership is a good situation or a bad one. Learning to recognize the signs of a sour relationship can save all parties involved a lot of grief and heart ache. If you have reason to believe that your relationship is going south, reflect on your bond with your significant other to see if you recognize any or all of these six signs: Withdrawal Did you have an understanding that you were going to be together on the weekend, but now you have to ask? Do... more

Go with your emotions. Angry? Take it out in a kickboxing class or a round with a punching bag. Sad? Throw on some blues or a tear-jerker if you need an excuse, and let the tears come. It’s ok to let the emotions flow! Get rid of reminders At this stage you’re probably best to simply tuck them away until you’re less emotional, but get any gifts from your ex or photos or other reminders out of sight for now. Keep your space. Especially if you and your ex have friends in common,... more

Would you be better off being yourself or having liquid courage while trying to get a hot girl? It all depends on what kind of hot girl you are after and how many beers you have in your system. One beer One beer may or may not really effect how you act. You might not even have a buzz. You might act exactly the same way as having ingested zero beers. If you went into this thinking you need to be drunk to get a hot girl then you need to drink more. Two beers You might be feeling a little bit of a... more

While most guys can work up the courage to ask out an average female they see somewhere around them, a lot fewer are able to work up the courage to ask out what they would consider to be a ‘hot’ girl. Let’s face it, when we find a member of the opposite sex incredibly attractive, we do get intimidated. We start to fear what they might think of us and furthermore, we know there is a better chance of rejection since they likely have many other offers coming their way. Since no one... more

Do you make these mistakes on your first date? Almost everyone gets pre-date jitters from time to time. It is perfectly normal and natural to be slightly nervous when you are about to meet someone for the first time as you don’t really know what to expect nor how they will react to meeting you. Since first impressions can really make or break the date, particularly when it comes to online dating, you need to be sure you are putting your best foot forward. Here are some big mistakes that you... more

Everyone is searching for the perfect partner. Whether you are actively dating and putting forth a great deal of effort to finding your true match or are casually dating others in hopes that you might come across something more, online dating can offer many advantages. One of these advantages is that you don’t necessarily have to be attractive to land a hot date. When you go out looking for a date in other more ‘typical’ venues, such as the bar, an activity club, the bookstore,... more

t sometimes seems like there are those who have all the luck when it comes to dating. They ask someone out and that person almost always says yes. Add to that that these people seem to run into single, available and attractive people everywhere. It’s like they have been blessed with good dating genes or something. But is that really the case? Or is there a reason for their good luck? And, more importantly, is there a reason why some people almost always seem to get rejected? There might be... more

There’s all kinds of rejections …. Being turned down when asking someone out for a date, not getting the raise you wanted, having a manuscript rejected ….. and it’s never fun to hear “no”. The first thing to try and remember is not to take it too personally. It’s easy to wonder what we did wrong, but the fact is it’s often NOT about us. The potential date, the boss, the editor, well none of them really know you; they are making a judgment based on a first... more