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Comment on Why Some People Almost Always Get Rejected by Ryan

Ryan — Wed, 15 May 2013 20:22:16 +0000

Us nice guys will never change! And the media teaches us the wrong kind of confidence. I liked the responses to the article it helped better than the article itself lol thank you guys.

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by alyssa

alyssa — Sat, 11 May 2013 01:17:12 +0000

So, because someone gets nervous around someone they like, it means they are desperate?

I have to disagree with you there. We all get nervous. I get nervous. I got very nervous around the person I liked… not because I’m desperate but because I thought very highly of him and cared what he thought about me.

does that make me desperate? No.

If I was desperate… I’d have offered him a b*** job after class so that I could maintain my A without having to work hard for it.

that’s desperate.

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by MareBear

MareBear — Thu, 09 May 2013 01:52:29 +0000

I’m just gonna be honest, I’ve been single for quite a while. The good guys I do meet are clingy and suffocating, which is very offsetting after about 2 weeks. I’m a relationship sort of girl, but haven’t had much luck meeting someone who’s looking for the same thing, or at least not with me. It’s not always about looks and personality… I know full well there’s nothing wrong with me. So at this point I’ve embraced being single. As long as you can get laid every once in awhile… Not ashamed. That definitely hasn’t been an issue. However it’s one thing to be real, honest, and up front about it versus being told by someone what they think you want to hear.

Comment on Why Some People Almost Always Get Rejected by Tony

Tony — Wed, 08 May 2013 09:23:24 +0000

Well, I mean. The key to happiness in life is basically your relationships and connections to other human beings, which i am not feeling with women right now. I am trying to be grateful at the things I have everyday. I am grateful for the opportunity to have loved a girl for 2 years, it was the best experience ever, then things fell apart. Although I am able to get make outs and flings, it seems hard to get anything more. Maybe because I need to get my shit straight? But it just seems the hurdle is so much harder for me because many times, deeps*** losers are able to get girl’s affection so much easier, just because they have a tattoo or motorcycle. Im Asian too so the media portrays my kind negatively, brainwashing the public to think im Mr. Chow or the fu***** gangnam style guy .Whatever, i dont really give a s*** anymore. If I want a women, ill go for it. It really is up to the man to do it. Guide every step of the way. Don’t hestitate, go for the rejection, and remain mentally strong. Unfortunately ladies, once a man achieves that, he is technically the “confident” man you want, but he will be detached and you will have a hard time locking him down. You will experience heartbreak from that a**h*** and you will become the bitch that every guy hates too. It’s a never ending cycle. Good job Society.

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by Bunny

Bunny — Fri, 03 May 2013 22:29:33 +0000

At first I thought this would worth reading but turned out different. I’ll be honest and say that when I younger (a teen) all I wanted was that happy like that included marriage, kids and the perfect home the whole 9. But then I had to make adjustments to that because not only did it never happen, I turned out to be so uninteresting to the opposite sex. I’ve been friendzoned and rejected as far as I can remember. Now being on my late 20s I still get rejected and friendzone. Only thing different as a teen it was because I wasn’t “made” properly oppose to now not wanting to accept being used for sex or lately just a blowjob.

I attract the creeps. I know it, but those are the guys I immediately friendzone or reject. The nice decent guys are already married or call me insufferable, not good enough or say how some man has to be crazy and insane to be with me. Yet their woman is the one acting and resembling Godzilla. I can also I eventually gave up on that marriage want and water to have someone for the sake of anything and I still get nothing. Seriously I had to wonder if I should be gay because of always being rejected. No dates, no boyfriends nothing. When I find someone I’m attracted to and ask what theyre looking for, I get told “well it’s not you.” But it’s not one race or particular age group. It’s been all kinds of men. If I’m not offering a sexual favor I’m considered useless or stingy. Like wtf it’s a vagina not a bakers dozen of cookies. I’m not going to share it with a married man, or one who want nothing more but add on to his calender girl collection.

Now I’m like screw relationships and love Itried the next time will work method and still got nothing. I’m better off single, least I still have my dignity and self worth. It might seem jaded or jagged. But how do you recover from always being rejected and told you’re never going to be good enough even by the one you fall in love with?? You just don’t it’s not possible.

Comment on Philippines Girls – What you need to know about Philippines Women by jay

jay — Wed, 10 Apr 2013 07:57:21 +0000

im sorry to hear that man , nut all what uv said is true , they r just good for short period , they cant live with one man forever , i havent seen filipina who manage to be with her husband forever , the highest numbers of single mothers in the world are filipina . sorry guys but qhat GLENN has said is true maybe not for all but the most of them .
regards

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by Amy

Amy — Sun, 07 Apr 2013 21:37:33 +0000

Notice how almost all the comments from the men are snide and aggressive– perhaps that’s why you’re having trouble with the ladies?? Geez. Wouldn’t touch that negativity with a 10-foot pole 0_o. The most unattractive thing in the world is that type of attitude, not the baldness, shortness, etc.

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by Lara

Lara — Sun, 07 Apr 2013 11:12:22 +0000

ps. height doens’t matter… well at least I don’t think it should… I agree that yes a lot of women are cruel & over judgemental but men can be too… it’s the same as the fact that I go through the city with an almost 7 month baby bump & I have 12 piercings in my face which I’m taking out before the baby is born ( includes two earings in each ear…) I get judged & people aren’t nice sometimes with their opinions but you have to just shrug it off & just be you – I feel no reason to justify to everyone why I have piercings & that I will be taking them out… it’s who I am & nothing can be done about it; so please don’t go faking who you are just to fit in, be accepted or just ’cause someone else doesn’t like something about you… you’re perfect just the way you are & oneday you’ll find someone who believes you are perfect in every way & will love you for you… be yourself & don’t forget that you don’t have to put on an act if that’s not who you really are…

Comment on 10 Reasons Why You’re Getting Rejected by Lara

Lara — Sun, 07 Apr 2013 11:00:25 +0000

Society doesn’t or should I say shouldn’t expect anyone to bend & mould around what everyone else wants; the pressure isn’t just on men but some women also. It’s just that you’re not their sort of person of appeal. Everyone has rights to their opinion & it’s the same in the dating world – the “10 Reasons why…” are just guidelines of things that tend to bother a lot of people in excess… if you get rejected then that’s fine… shrug it off & try again – maybe they just weren’t the right person for you… I am about 20yrs old, about to have a baby to a man a year older than me but the catch was: the pregnancy was not planned & I fell pregnant within one week of us going out… We both absolutely (excuse my language) s*** each other to tears constantly & even though we’re not together anymore (broke up after 2 months) we’re still sticking together for the baby’s sake even just as friends… so even though we’re both a huge pain in each other’s bottoms, there are ways of working around things no matter what type of relationship you do or don’t have & you can do it without hiding who you really are… just be yourself & when the time is right then your Mr. or Miss. Right might just come along… try & enjoy the ride & don’t force anything… you can be keen for companionship but if you start getting desperate or obsessive then you may just scare away your chance… take it easy & take it as it comes, what’s meant to be comes in time…

Comment on Philippines Girls – What you need to know about Philippines Women by littdee

littdee — Thu, 04 Apr 2013 12:35:29 +0000

glenn,
sorry to here that…
i am a filipina. i am so sorry for what have happened. my advise to men who wants to date or marry someone from the Philippines (a) if your gf or wife wants to send her family money, let her work for it. women who ask for money from their husband for expenses outside their immediate needs is most probably after the convenience they get from your marriage; (b)check their educational backgrounds and reputation before you marry her. she has children before ur marriage u said so what could have been the reason for such separation (c) always remember that no woman is perfect and Filipinas are not exempted from that..it just happened that u chose the wrong one. you did not mention her age and yours, most Filipinas who married young and separated are most likely to go wayward – i dont know why but that is the trend. Too immature probably and maturity never developed.
Again…im sorry.